What Men Really Think About Lingerie
Men love when we get all dressed up for them so why wouldn't they love for us to dress up for them in the bedroom? My husband loves when I get all dressed up for him. If we are going out he loves when I walk out of the bathroom looking all pretty. Whether I dressed up for him or for me, he loves it, not only because he likes to see me all dolled up but because he likes how confident it makes me. When he tells me how beautiful I am, I feel prettier and more confident. We all want to feel beautiful, sexy and desired by our partners.
With all that considered, let's talk about lingerie. Of course your partner loves it when you're naked, and yes, he might just rip that sexy little nightie right off of you within a few seconds, but how did it make him feel when you stepped out in that soft, little lacy number? How did it make you feel? Lingerie isn't about looking like a super model for hours on end. It's about going through the trouble to dress up for him. This lets him know you care, and at the same time makes you feel more sexy. Plus, we feel our best when we look our best. Yes, being naked is fabulous and will certainly get the job done, but add lingerie into the mix and there's a whole new game to play.
A while ago in our private ladies Facebook group, Angie Davis Lingerie, I shared an article called I Wore Lingerie to Bed for 7 Nights. This is a great example of how her boyfriend felt special because she was dressing up for him, but the really awesome thing about the entire story is how SHE felt. Wearing soft lace on our skin can do wonders for our self esteem, confidence and overall thoughts about our bodies. We women are beautiful. We are curvy, soft and magical creatures. We should feel like that all the time with soft lace that hugs our curves and makes us feel like a goddess all the time.
What men REALLY think about lingerie shouldn't matter as long as YOU like it and feel sexy and confident while you wear it. If he enjoys it, then that's a great bonus. I hope you will take the same 7 night challenge as the lady in the article did. You never know what might happen. :)
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